Monday, July 30, 2018

Continuous Restlessness Among Relationships In Families

By Jeffrey Jones


Nowadays separation after wedding is very common. Couples decide to depart and break their relationship even for small reasons. Probably communication could have solved the issue. Children are the most affected in this decision. The kind of get deserted. This also affects their psychology. There should be a mechanism to detect the divorce warning signs.

The powerful emotion humans can experience is love. Partners do not think deep about affection when there is a continuous giving and receiving from each another. Only when there is something lacking in relationships people ponder. But by the time they realize it becomes too late to save the relationship.

There will be ego clashes between the parents of both families which tend to aggravate problems. Most often the people from poor or lower class families might be narrow minded in maintaining relationships with opposite side, whereas upper class will follow a broad minded attitude. This creates problems inside the family when both the couples are from different classes which can lead to divorce.

Violence is not a social behavior. This is a psychological problem. Showing aggression against our loved ones does not bring peace or try to solve the issue. This actually makes matter worst. A decision taken in anger is never appropriate. A couple should openly communicate to each other for any disagreement which will help in improving the relationship. Reasons are many, why couples choose to separate is the changes in life like redundancy, retirement, bereavement, abandoning of one partner, children leaving home, violence, sexual abuse etc.

Violence in families creates criminal tendencies in children, which can affect them in afterward. This also encourage anger, disobedience, fear, not studying, suicides, sexual abusing of friends, which later can take them to prison. Depression, anxiety and other mental stress or disorders are part and parcel of impact of violence and divorce in families.

Unemployment plays a big role in divorce. A huge challenge a relationship can face is one of the partners losing their job. This creates humiliation, frustration, fear, and despair among the couples. This can put marriages under tremendous strain. May be for the first three months things would go without any serious issues and after that if any one of them is not able to find a job things go wrong in the family.

Occupations and complexity regarding earning more also creates problems in relationships. People having jobs in police and military, nurses, bartenders would have less time to share with their family. Wives making more money than their husbands are generally not appreciated by the spouse and thus create ego complexes that lead to separation.

The divorce without a mutual consent where one partner opposes for separation. The reasons coming under this are cruelty, mental disorder, communicable disease, adultery, desertion etc. Also court and lawyer charges are involved in it which should be paid by both parties. This type of cases require huge amount of settlement.

Both parties should be willing to adjust for a compromise. Blaming does not give any benefit to any person. Forgiving is a good medicine to help a relationship. Both people need to pardon and let go off the complexes. When all these things are done a relationship can be saved from a divorce.




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