Thursday, November 15, 2018

The Strict Rules Of Halal Dating

By Anthony Kelly


Dating is a stage where couple will engage in romantic relationships or the stage of getting themselves knows each other better. Both people will meet socially with the aim of getting or assessing each other suitability as a partner to be in an intimate relationship or possibly ending up in a marriage. This is a form of courtship where is consist of social activities done by both parties. They will explore each wants and needs. Islamic communities have valued Halal dating as a means where the couples will avoid getting intimate until they get married.

A person must decide what kind of dating do they want for themselves. In this day and age, its not enough to know that you need to have a date. Some folks try to find love through internet dating applications and websites. Online dates are the future of dating. By simply putting up a profile, then browsing other people profiles in their own convenience, they can check on others personal information and contact them if they want to know more about them.

There are people who travel to a bar or a club to find a date. Approaching the opposite sex out of the blue is difficult. You will have no idea how the person would react or if they have a commitment already. This method is perfect for individual who have confidence and comfortable with the opposite gender. This type of dating is informal and sometimes does not end up in marriage but only flings.

In Islam or Muslim religion, there are many guidelines and strict rules for every individual. Controlling with their feelings is necessary for couples. They are only obliged to touch each other physically and sexually when they get married. Premarital sex is against their laws and traditions and may result in deadly consequences to both parties.

To learn more about a person, the individual can search through the internet about how they live their life. Many people have posted their daily routines and activities in social media. Websites where they can socialize with others are important to check their background. This will make you have a precise detail about their selves.

Learning the art of small talk is essential. Small talk is hard and not all people are capable of doing it. Finding a common ground is important for both parties. By starting with small but meaningful talk, they can remove the awkwardness and shyness that they will feel from each other. By breaking the ice, they may express more to each other.

In Islam, before a believer can marry someone, both parties must know and generalize and emphasize both their feelings. The requirement is that they are not allowed to do intercourse unless they are married. They must go out together with their friends and family members.

However, some do not want to be selective. They are afraid that they might lose the right one for them for being selective. By simply trading phone numbers and meeting them in person is likely to be a sign that they are interested and desires to be in actual relationship.

Always be honest. If the person is not serious into taking it to the next level, then tell them the truth. Let them know straight away and do not give them false hope.




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